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说说我的岳父岳母

想起来也挺奇怪的, 本来是陌生人, 隔着十万八千里的, 因为结婚, 突然就多了很多亲戚. 刚结婚那会儿, 去了老婆家一趟, 大家都客客气气的, 也不太熟悉. 她们家在东北的一个林业部的企业, 也和许多东北的国有企业一样, 处于破产的状态. 家属院里老人多, 估计年轻人都跑出去寻生计了. 因为处于市郊, 地方到是宽敞, 有的人还种了菜, 果树, 养了猪, 牛. 不象工厂, 到别有一番乡村的风味.

岳父是十几岁就开始学徒工作, 典型的东北人. 爱喝酒爱抽烟爱说话. 特别爱说话. 东北人叫瞎白活. 干活真是没的说. 从日常生活中的修修补补的几个小事儿就看的出来. 刚开放那会儿, 带着人出去做工程, 也赚了些钱. 当时大家刚买黑白的时候, 她家已经买了彩色电视机. 赚了钱, 当然大家嫉妒, 厂里就要求他回来, 岳父岳母也觉得待在国家的企业里是长久之计, 后来在厂里当了副厂长. 不过大形式变了, 国家的企业也不再是铁饭碗了.

岳母是师专毕业. 在她那个年代, 也算不简单了. 毕业就去了厂里的子弟学校. 后来慢慢厂里的学生越来越少. 老师也都四处活动调走了. 她也可以调到市里教育局所属的学校. 不过受了老毛的教育, 想问题都是一个模式. 还是待在厂里. 慢慢厂里的老师要下岗, 她还主动让了机会给比她年轻的. 不过最后那个年轻的老师也下了. 有时侯说到她的同学, 有的在北京当了什么高级教师, 教育部门的干部, 有的调到市里, 在重点学校里也吃香的很.

他们本着这么一个思维, 觉得国有企业是长久之计. 把双方的老人也接了来, 兄弟姐妹的也想办法调了过来. 去年厂子终于要被买断了. 就是划拉划拉, 便宜处理了. 然后国家社会买主给厂里的工人一笔小钱. 后来接触也渐渐的多了. 我想有着大多数这个年龄的中国人的特色把. 勤劳, 善良, 节省, 爱手洗衣服, 吃剩的不愿意倒掉, 爱做油乎乎的食品, 关心菜的价格, 不愿意花钱. 几十年下来, 也不会轻易改变了.

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